Over the past few months, I have witnessed numerous occasions where girls have been crying over guys. I think its like break up season or something. Through their experiences and through my own experience I have came to the conclusion that it isn't so hard to figure out if a guy is interested in a girl or not. Girls (not all girls) sit for hours thinking, thinking, and thinking "why did he say this" ..." why did he do that"... "does he have feelings for me". They dwell on it for hours, wasting their precious lives. I don't think it is stupid to have feelings for someone, I actually think its beautiful for someone to have such 'HIGH' feelings without taking drugs, but is it actually that beautiful if you already feel confused, and alone?
Basically i look at it like a soccer game, or football or what ever, how ever you want to look at it. The guy plays the game in order to win! He puts in all this effort, his main and only goal is to WIN. If he didnt want to win, he wouldnt put in effort. Now lets take that and link it with relationships. If he wanted to win the girl, he would put in the effort, fight against others and win the girl! If he isnt putting in the effort... dont you think there is something wrong? Maybe he doesnt want to win you? ... My point is that, if a guy likes a girl.. he puts in effort, and if he isnt putting in effort, and people are like... "aw its because he is shy" .."oh he must have other things to do" ...i say tell them to shut up because they are just putting your hopes up about nothing, soon you start to make excuses up for him, and this and that. Ok lets say he was shy, yes there is a chance, there are many guys out there that are shy, but come on he would put a bit of effort in atleast for you to see there is something there. Same goes to guys, if the girl isnt putting in effort, if your sitting there thinking ... "i cant really see the signs but maybe she likes me"... there is a problem. Maybe s/he does like you and is scared of showing interest, but if you have already shown interest, and you STILL don't see anything, then just turn the page and keep living life. The person who likes you should want to speak to you, they should want to see you, and if they like you but arent wanting any of that, wow your going to have one great relationship, goodluck.
All of this is obviously just my own opinion, my own thoughts and feelings about this situation, I may be right or wrong. I just think that love, and relationships should be worthwhile, and that people should give their time to people who actually do show that they love them. Hope my thoughts havent offended anyone. And I hope you do find someone who is worth your time.
*Peace Out*
2 comments:
yeah so all ya girlies out there who have already started crossing toes 'cause fingers are too preoccupied with pilling rose pedals in the back garden while repeatedly chanting "he does" & "he doesn't", STOP THE INSANITY! Ya'll should listen to what Arin's gotta say about this whole craze 'cause this girl's so far da BEST "real life Oprah" i've came across in my life. Love you lots Arin =D
I agree with you 'cause I've sat around making up signs that weren't even there in my past and will probably continue doing it later on down the road without even noticing it. Why us girls deliberately put ourselves in misery is an anomaly itself xD
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